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Snap Illustration by Lia Kantrowitz KinkD is an app promising to help users "fulfill their golden shower fantasies. But KinkD isn't quite as novel as it might seem. For many, kink is more than just a set of acts. It involves community and education, helping kinksters and the curious alike explore their boundaries, meet others, and learn and adopt the norms of safe and consensual best kinky practice. There's a degree kibk safety to this, as well as an established behavioral etiquette. These new apps paint kink as an identity or regular practice, similar to how people in the scene depict themselves, and they try to match people on anything from simple acts like pegging to fairly intense fetishes like breath play.

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Yet while some apps nod to community and education, they cannot ensure it, or police norms, as effectively as old-school kink spaces. But it's an online community that puts you in touch with other fetishists and kinksters.

So the least they can do is make sure they do their utmost to integrate with and learn from existing kink space models, for their users' sake. They're here to stay, a new space for kink exploration and connection. If you're curious about jink out something new, or you're super into a specific fetish, you'll find someone here who gets it. It involves community and education, helping kinksters and the curious alike explore their boundaries, meet others, and learn and adopt the norms of safe and consensual best kinky practice.

Oh, and if you're into BDSM, or a certain fetish, get swiping immediately. No one can expect an app to provide the same experience as a traditional, physical kink space, says Daveed. Find over 14 kink friendly groups with members near you and meet people in your local community who share your interests. They note that they're consulting with people in the scene and trying to incorporate the lessons of old-school spaces and communities.

Mar 9, Getty Considering how much meettup and I mean human beings seem to love hooking up, it's surprising how many people you meet on the mainstream dating apps and sites that aren't remotely sex-positive. Kinkd, Kinkstr, and KNKI all describe themselves as communities and talk about tools for education or linking users to groups and events in-app.

Kinky dating apps aren't looking to replace these spaces. View Gallery 7 Photos 1 of 7 KinkD KinkD is awesome not only because the users are all open-minded and into kink, but because it also puts them through a photo verification process. You can make your own photos meeetup or unlock them to whoever you choose.

Everyone has to submit their IDs to prove their profile photos are actually them, making the community safer and catfish-free. If you back open, tolerant, and progressive attitudes towards sex and sexuality, these are the apps and sites for you. But there are already digital spaces for these sorts of people, like CollarSpace and FetLifewhich connect people to one another and to groups, spaces, and events near them, but can also be used as dating pools.

These new apps paint meeetup as an identity or regular practice, similar to how people in the scene depict themselves, and they try to match people on anything from simple acts like pegging to fairly intense fetishes like breath play. But there are also formal or informal educational events, and "munches," meetings in public spaces to socialize—an especially welcoming environment for newcomers. These venues aren't perfect; abusers can still infiltrate them, and novices can still wind up in some odd situations.

Instead, kinky apps claim they're responding to desires voiced by those in the community for a new kind of venue. Nor do they claim kkink be the only digital space for kinksters to find partners; Daveed and others in the scene attest to the fact that many just use OKCupid or Tinder and either find other kinksters in the lusty scrum or get involved with vanilla folks who they gradually introduce to their kinks. Find over 10 Kinks groups with members near you and meet people in your local community kimk share your interests.

Traditional kink spaces take on diverse forms, ideally making them welcoming to any level of fetish knowledge or mode of social being. Given how dangerously bad popular knowledge of consent and safety areand the damage Fifty Shades has already done see the spike in sex toy-related injuriesoften tied to poorly executed kink, in its wakeand you've got a potentially nasty recipe brewing on these apps: Novices told apps are an easy entry into a new world seeking kinky trysts with other novices, or stepping into a hook-up with someone more experienced but unprepared to navigate the complexities of kink.

Whiplr 3 of 7 Whiplr Looking for meehup play partner or someone to video chat with while talking about all the stuff that turns you on? It now boasts millions of members. Users can discuss their fetishes, explore new ones and get to know the other more than 3 million users. However, they are welcoming and well-crafted spaces made to connect and educate all sorts of folks.

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But he and others believe apps ought to do a little more soul searching about how to encourage safe, sane, and consensual kink rather than just provide a new meat market on which anyone, even non-initiates, can wander blindly into any sort of kinkiness. Sure, many people think of kink events or spaces in terms of sex dungeons or play partiesin which people enact or watch fetish tableaus.

But these apps have a market. Most link have some ID verification tactic, unlike FetLife, which in theory allows for better abuse policing. It's like a network of its own, where you can follow friends, search hashtags and like their pics.

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However, that policing will almost inevitably still pale against what can be done within a dedicated space or a stable in-person community. Find over 15 Kink Community groups with members near you and meet people in your local community who share your interests. But KinkD isn't quite as novel as it might seem. Couples are also welcome.

However the efficacy of these efforts and the long-term effects of the apps on pop engagement and experiences with kink will probably take a few experimental years to reveal themselves. They could mmeetup an entry point to kink communities for shy people, those who for legal or job reasons might not want to risk being seen at a kink space, or people in areas without a big scene.

It meettup help that apps often flatten out kink's complexity and the idiosyncrasies negotiated in every kinky relationship or encounter by boiling kinks down into a few blocky search. Snap Illustration by Lia Kantrowitz KinkD is an app promising to help users "fulfill their golden shower fantasies.

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Anything goes. And they explicitly market not to established scenesters who know how kihk navigate kink, or have access to community and resources to help with new encounters, but to novices—especially those drawn in by Fifty Shades of Grey, a notoriously poor depiction of kinky sex that actually glorifies abuse and outright rape.

Follow Mark Hay on Twitter. FetLife, founded inhas grown rapidly in recent years. Daveed acknowledges that apps can cut down on some of the frustration of going to munches or cruising general kimk apps and taking ages to find someone with similar desires you can also connect to. There's a degree of safety to this, as well as an established behavioral etiquette.

Nor should kinky sex be limited to those willing to regularly engage in and define themselves as part of the kinkster community. Still, no one's out to kill neetup apps. It can be frustrating having kinky desires and not being able to act on them… But it's absolutely worth taking the time to explore exactly what it is you want and getting to know other kinksters as multifaceted human beings.